[quote=ecurbruce ...
" When I have a relay in the headlamp circuit, does the relay contribute to the load of my system, "
____ Yes but, it's only supposed to be just a small-fraction of that of the light-bulb itself, added along-with.
So when any such relay is added, you can then certainly expect more/additional
total power-consumption ! - (Cuz also the light-itself is expected to then be able to draw some added-amount of extra-power, as well.)
__ Some relays employ a mechanical spring-loaded rocker-lever switch-setup, so that they just draw power only during the brief-moment of Hi/Low-activation, while other relay-types are always drawing some power (their-self), whenever the main-light circuit is powered-up.
" and how can I determine how much load that is? "
Sooners wrote:Or if you have a ampmeter, place it in serries with the coil and energize it and read its current value.
____ And then to determine your relay-unit's expected wattage-consumption, multiply your measured amp.reading x12 (or your actual/measured system-voltage). ...
So-if you were to happen to measure a rather reasonable .08-amps (flowing-through it's primary-circuit), then your relay-unit would be consuming near 1-watt.
__ It would be fairly interesting to learn what your r.unit actually does consume, so let us know if you find-out.
" Then the relay socket I'm using has a device on the back of it like a resistor in parallel with the relay coil wires. "
____ It seems like a 'resistor' would-not be in 'parallel', as that would only add to the relay-unit's overall power-drain. _ I'd more-so expect that piggy-back to be a 'condenser', (possibly used to absorb [collapsing-flux induced]- 'current-inertia', so as to protect the coil-relay's contact-points from arcing-damage).
" It's black and silver. What is it's function, and should I use it? "
____ Got any pix to show of exactly what you've got ?
Hopeful-Cheers,
-Bob